Best advice;Hotel? Trivago! Get link Facebook X Pinterest Email Other Apps July 16, 2021 Best advice; Hotel? Trivago! relationship 167 Likes 19 Comments Jennifer Long Eihn Ebi Sacam you have been together for 2 years now and the only thing that matters is if you trust him or not. he did tell you about her, he did tell you, he slept at her place some times but nothing happens and he is not interested in her. You discuss everything openly and you had no reason to think he is disloyal. Most comments you get will say something like "he's fucking her" and tbh it is possible. You won't get a really good advice on you just need to follow your heart. Daveo Wilko I get why you feel like this and after reading your last post, you seem to have some big trust issues. If you keep beeing like this, he will ofcourse thrift away further from you, you might have fucked it up already. Sorry to say that, but respect the privacy of your boyfriend. If you can't handle it, seek some professional help, not . Hani Jasmin Just pay attention to details and don't overreact if they are not meeting in real life without you then its fine. Anyways being in relationship and having friends of opposite sex is a red flag for me, depends on how close they are tho, but I am not wasting my time on someone that prefers to have a very close friend from opposite sex. I like a relationship to be relaxing without external events like "friends", if I have to rise up my guard then I am out. Marvin Baluyot Velarde (4) But I'm really worried that there was something in these messages, as he decided to delete them all from one female friend I was worried about. He even tried to restore these messages, but it didn't work, and I catch myself thinking about this situation and trust him a little less. What do you think about all this? Are my fears justified? I know I behaved terribly, but I had some kind of gut feeling about this and I have trouble beliving in his explanations or if there was really nothing between them. How to handle all this and rebuild our trust? Senad Mustafovski Wow. I am not sure if I could ever trust you again if I were him and you were my gf. Female here, and "a strange feeling in your guts" is NO reason for going through his messages. You asked him several times if there was something between him and her and he said no. What do you want? What else should he do? I also found it very sad to see that he ended all his friendships to girls because of you. I also guess it's quite a good way to scare him away eventually because he might ask himself if it's better to have you and none of these friendships or other way round. I don't mean to be rude, but in your case I'd apologize and hope he'd be generous enough to forgive my behaviour. And yes, my partner has female friends. Yes, he meets them alone now and then (although I like them and we also meet them together). No, I don't think that's a bad thing. No, I don't read his messages. Emma Barr Seems really hard for you miss but messages are just messages. If he try to comfort you by being more open about hos private message it's a sign of trust so you should stress a little less but still don't let you guard down because most of the time bad feelings and fear are your best allies Don Goode If it was just friendship or if he had nothing in mind with her, then he wouldn.t delete all the messages. This is the most realistic way of thinking. I hope though it.s not the case. Stay optimistic but not ignorant ;) Serban Vanessa (1) Little background: I live with my boyfriend for about two years. Now we openly discuss every matter in our relationship, and he was nothing but supportive and loving boyfriend through all this period! Fast forward, before we met he had a lot of female friends, but none of this friendships survived to this day. I was never worried of these girls, he didn't give me any reason to think that he might be disloyal, until one. He had this one female friend, and I was worried about their relation for a really long time (this friendship lasted/ended about two months ago). I did not say anything at the beginning or later, but they were really close - he claimed that she really understands him, they can talk about everything and he even slept at her place sometimes before we met (but he stopped after we started dating, as he said it was disrespectful). Elizabeth Hocog Princess Sarah Muñoz (3) I never did that, only then and once few days later. As I claimed I'm not proud of what I did and my boyfriend found out about my snooping and I know that I let down his trust. So, few days later I found out that he deleted all messages, from the very beginning, from her and I decided to ask him about it. He claimed that he knew that I snooped, and was really angry, because these were his private messages and deleted them, so I will stop looking. I apologised, but asked again if there was something between them as he only deleted messages from her, not from anybody else (if he wanted to keep his privacy), during our relationship. We talked calmly and I explained that I was really worried about their relation, he denied that anything happened between them and he even became until then more open about his phone, to make me less worried and I know he wasn't deleting any messages from that moment. Mariyam Faisal 1. create ur special forces consequent.. no soldiers wears jeans at combat .. dont fuck ghost recon wildlands up 2. king kong for life.. 3. dinosaurs arent kids stories. 4. i fucking hate relationships.. so do you Ben Fredj Sahar Step in my shoes I met a beautyful girl, a total knock out, talked to me in the most caring and nurturing way, it was so easy to fall in love with her, 8 months go by and i feel more and more in love with her, then i realize she is a stripper that fucks everyone for money... i am a fucking dumbass, for trusting her. It hurts like hell, but the fucking sessions were out of this world Nancy J Munoz Did he know you snooped through the messages with that girl specifically? If yes, it's kind of understandable he deleted them. It seems like your boyfriend is loyal to you and he's trying to be honest. Maybe you are just jealous of what he has with that other girl because your relationship gets "stale" after living together for so long? You can't base all this distrust on just a gut feeling. If you truly cannot put yourself over this, maybe just talk to the female friend about it? Amanda Hudson I'm a bit confused. Are you wanting advice regarding cheating or do you feel guilty about them parting ways? If he is loyal to you then it would make sense that he chose you over his "friend". So I don't think you have anything to worry about. If he's open to discuss feelings etc... I'd ask him straight up what their deal was. Bonnie Clyde If he introduced you, then you're probably okay. Billie Tyer Advices are charged here at 1paragragh per nude Amy Czerw K so what advice are U locking for? I got some spare in stock. Adele Semenaviciene So.what is you question ? Wayne Kirk (2) Although, he claimed that with this girl it is just friendship, nothing never was between them as she before dated one of his best friends and during the period, before he met me, was dating various woman for longer or shorter period of time, but was never interested in her. I had some strange feeling about her, though, and (I know) I snooped through their messages. I'm not proud of it, but it happened. I only read few recent messages on Facebook, but they talked about nothing in general, I was embarassed and was not brave enough to read more, so I stopped. I only noticed that there is a little banter between them, but nothing explicitly meaning that something more was between them - there were also some kissing and hearts emojis, but I know this girl (he introduced us to each other) and I know she is like that to every male friend of her. And one more thing, he had her under some nickname in a little diminutive way, but that's all what I noticed. 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Eihn Ebi Sacam
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Mariyam Faisal
Ben Fredj Sahar
Nancy J Munoz
Amanda Hudson
Bonnie Clyde
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